Officers & Board

Bender JCC Board Officers

Daryle Bobb

Board Chair

Daryle currently serves as CEO and owner of American Paving and Striping, a Baltimore-Washington area leader in providing asphalt paving, concrete, and lot striping. Daryle was recently the President of Hof Laundry Systems in Beltsville, Maryland as well as the President of Best Lockers, LLC. Hof was the area's largest local provider of coin and card operated laundry equipment to multi-family housing. Best Lockers was the pioneer of the electronic locker system that is now in use on a global scale. Daryle has an extensive background in non-profit work and was actively involved on the Board of Directors for local branches of the Daniel Heuman Fund for Spinal Cord Research from 1991-1998, The Sharre Zedek Hospital in Jerusalem from 1993-1994, the Hebrew Home of Greater Washington from 1994-2000, and the Jewish Foundation for Group Homes from 2015-2018. Daryle Co-founded Most Valuable Kids, a non-profit agency that turns unused tickets of sports and cultural events into opportunities for kids in need. Daryle is currently the Board Chair of the Bender JCC of Greater Washington, The Vice President of Woodmont Country Club, and a Board Member of Tickets for Kids. A native Washingtonian, Daryle earned his bachelor’s degree from The University of Wisconsin in Madison and lives in Rockville, Maryland with his wife and their four children.
Noam Fischman

Board Chair Elect

Noam Fischman is a Partner in the DC office of Akerman LLP. Noam serves as the Firm’s Co-Team Lead for Health Care Litigation, with a focus on government investigations, fraud litigation, commercial litigation for health care companies, and managing legal risks related to merger and acquisition activity. Noam also counsels several area nonprofit organizations about corporate governance and risk-mitigation issues. Noam graduated from the Rutgers College Honors Program Magna Cum Laude and as an undergraduate associate for the Eagleton Institute of Politics. Noam received his Juris Doctor degree, with Honors, from the George Washington University National Law Center. Noam and his family are congregants at Shaare Torah. Previously, Noam served on Shaare Torah’s Board of Directors and as its Vice President of Operations. From 2015 - 2024, Noam served as the General Counsel of the Bender JCC Board of Trustees.
Charles Levingston

Treasurer

CHARLES LEVINGSTON, 40, has served as Executive Vice President and Chief Financial Officer of EagleBank and Eagle Bancorp, Inc. since April 2017. Mr. Levingston, a Certified Public Accountant, served in various financial and senior management roles at the Bank prior to his current role. Mr. Levingston joined the EagleBank in January 2012, and previously worked at The Federal Reserve Banks of Atlanta and Philadelphia as a Bank Examiner, and at PriceWaterhouseCoopers as a Manager in the Advisory practice. He has over 19 years of experience in the banking industry. Charles and his wife Ali, have two children, Jonah (age 8) and Maya (age 5) who have been through the JCC preschool. They now attend Charles E. Smith Jewish Day School and attend the JCC afterschool program. Jonah has been a camper at Camp JCC.
Rebecca Stallone

Assistant Treasurer

REBECCA STALLONE works in acquisitions and asset management at Polinger Company, a local real estate company. She has her bachelor’s in business administration from American University. Her children attend(ed) the Bender JCC preschool and Camp JCC.
Wendy Morris

Secretary

WENDY LEFKOE MORRIS received her bachelor’s degree from The George Washington University and her Juris Doctor degree from American University’s Washington College of Law. She began her career as a corporate and banking lawyer with Muldoon, Murphy & Faucette, and then Mayer, Brown & Platt. After her eldest son was diagnosed with autism, she has dedicated her time to volunteering with various autism-related organizations including Autism Speaks and Kennedy Krieger Institute. Wendy is married to Matthew S. Morris and has two sons, Jared and Drew. She joined the Bender JCC Board in 2020.
Barry Kaplan

Ombudsman

Josh Bender

Chief Executive Officer

Josh Bender has spent the last 20 years in leadership roles spanning the JCC, Jewish camping, synagogue, and Jewish Day School worlds. He brings an eclectic background in both executive and educational leadership in the Jewish non-profit sector. Josh is a graduate of DSLTI, a leadership program at the Jewish Theological Seminary, holds a Master’s Degree in Jewish Education from Baltimore Hebrew Institute of Towson University, and a bachelor’s degree from Penn State University in English Writing. Josh grew up in the JCC movement in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania where he learned his love of sports, song leading and playing the guitar in JCC camp and youth groups. Josh is married to Julie and has 4 children, Noah, Jacob, Ethan, and Sophie.

Board of Directors

Stacey Watson
STACEY WATSON is the Director of Member Experience for Main Street Connect, Inc., a non-profit 501(c)(3) organization based in Rockville, Maryland with a national reach. Main Street focuses on accessible living, a membership-based community and a spreading an ethos of inclusive communities. Stacey’s professional experience has focused on creating and strengthening communities through enriching and award-winning programming. Stacey is a proud alumna of Syracuse University, and earned her MSW, specializing in Management and Community Organizing with a concentration in Families and Children, from the University of Maryland in 2010. She lives in Kensington, MD with her husband, Andrew, and their two children.
Brian Gaines
BRIAN GAINES is CEO at MdBio Foundation, Inc., a nonprofit organization that provides science, technology, engineering and mathematics education opportunities. He has a bachelor’s degree from the State University of New York at Albany. He has served on the Bender JCC Board since 2013.
David Helfand
DAVID HELFAND is a personal injury attorney focused on helping victims and survivors of accidental injuries. He has been a member of the bar for 30+years. He has also worked in a variety of management roles at his family's manufacturing and distribution company as well as a liquidation and distribution company that he founded. Additionally, he has served as the Chairman of the Board for United Force for Good, a non-profit that he founded with his daughters. He has been tied to this community for years having been raised in Rockville and Potomac, and he attended nursery school at the JCC in the early 1970's.
Jermaine Stanley
JERMAINE STANLEY is a Cybersecurity and Information Tech Risk leader with more than 25 years of expertise who is passionate about Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) in Technology. Jermaine is an influencer who is effective at gaining consensus at all levels of management. As a trusted advisor to multiple industries, such as Financial, Healthcare, Technology, and Government, Jermaine has coached organizations on best practices in creating inclusive cultures. As a technology leader with a reputation for building teams, mentoring, and a passion for creating diverse and inclusive cultures, Jermaine strives to help companies build, and launch initiatives that promote DEI within their organizations. Viewed as a rising voice in DEI and he brings a unique business perspective on DEI in technology. This perspective has enabled Jermaine with the insights to help companies develop and shape the their approaches to establishing a diverse, equitable, and inclusive culture.
Rami Kandel
RAMI KANDEL holds a bachelor’s degree from the University of Maryland and is the Regional Director at Hyro.ai, an Israeli based Healthcare AI Company. He has coached the Bender JCC boys’ soccer team at the Mid-Atlantic Junior Games. In 2005, Rami and his wife Melanie established the David Lev Kandel Memorial Endowment Fund in memory of their son. The purpose of the fund is to support the Camp JCC inclusion program. Rami has served on the Bender JCC Board since 2015.
Eric Klein
ERIC KLEIN was born and raised in the suburbs of Detroit, Michigan where he attended Hillel Day School. He graduated from the University of Michigan in 1990 and moved to Chicago. Eric moved to Montgomery County in 1995 as his wife Vicki, also a Michigan alum, grew up in Potomac. Eric is a CPA and an Assurance Partner with EY. Eric is board member of the Montgomery County Coalition for the Homeless where he actively volunteers. They belong to Congregation Har Shalom and have two daughters (a recent graduate of Michigan and a sophomore at Michigan).
Jeffrey Krauthamer
JEFFREY KRAUTHAMER After graduating from Walter Johnson High School in 1991, I began my current job as a fulltime receptionist/legal assistant at the law firm of Krauthamer & Stahl in Chevy Chase. After taking some time off from school, I continued my education at Montgomery College, receiving an Administrative Support Technology Certificate in 2004. I received a Volunteer Service Award from the Jewish Foundation for Group Homes in 2007. I was a participant in a 2011 photography project for the U.S. Department of Labor's Office of Disability Employment Policy, portraying people with disabilities in the workplace. My photo was used, along with a written profile about me and my job, on the Department's website. I am a past board member of the Jewish Foundation for Group Homes and the Jewish Social Service Agency. I have been a member of B'nai Israel Congregation, along with my family, since 1976.
Rebecca Robins
CANTOR REBECCA ROBINS is Director of Temple Sinai’s religious school and oversees the congregational youth educational programs. She is especially passionate about making sure children, teens, and their families feel a sense of significance and belonging at Temple Sinai. Rebecca came to Temple Sinai in 2012. A passion for music, teaching, learning and working with people on life’s journey sent her to cantorial school at the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion where she was ordained as cantor in 2008. After being ordained she served Congregation Sinai in Milwaukee, WI as Cantor-Educator. Originally from Long Island, NY, she holds a BM in Music Education and Vocal Performance from the Crane School of Music, State University of New York College at Potsdam in Potsdam, NY. She began her career in education as a K-8 music teacher at Lyncourt School in Syracuse, NY. She is a member of the American Conference of Cantors (ACC), and the Association of Reform Jewish Educators (ARJE), and serves as chairperson of the DMV’s Reform Synagogue Musicians professional group. She lives with her husband Zerek and their son Gus in Rockville, Maryland. When not at Sinai, they can be found exploring, doing projects, baking cupcakes, and having as much fun as possible.
Bruce Wiener
BRUCE WIENER was born and raised in and around Detroit, Michigan. He attended the University of Michigan, where he received his undergraduate and law degrees. Bruce and his wife Rochelle moved the area in 1984, where Bruce began practicing law in Washington, D.C. He worked for several law firms and the federal government until he established Wiener Financial Management, an independent financial advisor business, in 1998.  Bruce joined MAI Capital Management LLC in 2023 as a Senior Wealth Advisor.  Bruce has been involved in various local Jewish organizations, including serving as the president of Beth Sholom in Potomac and participating in the Investment Committee for the Bender JCC of Greater Washington. Bruce and Rochelle have two sons – Daniel (who lives in Denver with his wife Rachel and their three children) and Ari (who lives in Potomac with his wife Francesca and three children).
Jonathan Weinberg
JONATHAN WEINBERG serves a s Evolent Health’s General Counsel and is the chief legal officer of the company. Prior to joining Evolent, Jonathan was a Senior Vice President and Deputy General Counsel for Coventry Health Care, Inc., where he supervised many of the operational functions of the Coventry legal department including mergers and acquisitions, federal and state regulatory issues, provider contracting, and Medicare and Medicaid issues. While a t Coventry, Jonathan also was in charge of the risk management department. Prior to joining Coventry, Jonathan was an associate and then partner a t Epstein Becker and Green, P.C. in the firm’s health care practice, specializing in managed care issues. Jonathan received his BA from the University of Wisconsin-Madison and his JD from the Catholic University of America.
Holly Mendelson
HOLLY MENDELSON is the Vice President and co-owner of Potomac Publishing, Inc. She is the co- publisher of INSIGHT Into Diversity magazine, the largest, oldest, and most respected national diversity, equity, and inclusion magazine in higher education. Prior to owning INSIGHT Into Diversity, Holly worked in corporate marketing at companies such as Marriott International, Inc., and Bell Atlantic, Inc. She spent 20+ years shaping the way organizations communicated with their customers and was proud to help grow the Marriott Rewards program into the largest hotel loyalty program in the world by the time she left. When the opportunity arose in 2007 to transition to communicating about diversity, inclusion, anti-hate/bias, and the critical nature of the work being done in these areas, she embraced the opportunity. Holly believes her work supporting higher education access, employment, and social justice for people from all underrepresented groups through INSIGHT Into Diversity over the last 15 years has turned out to be her 'calling.' It is in line with her strong personal beliefs and values, and she feels it has been life-changing for her in innumerable ways. Since purchasing INSIGHT Into Diversity, Holly and her co-owner have completely revamped the publication to be the foremost voice advancing the national conversation about diversity and inclusion in higher education and beyond. Holly has focused on expanding INSIGHT's readership through partnerships with highly respected non-profit organizations in order to reach all underserved populations, and its Editorial Board to ensure that all voices are represented. INSIGHT Into Diversity is well known for its Higher Education Excellence in Diversity (HEED) Award, the only national recognition for an institution's level of achievement of and commitment to diversity and inclusion throughout campus. Holly graduated from the University of Michigan, Ann Arbor, in 1987 with a Bachelor of Arts degree in marketing, communications and psychology. She resides in Gaithersburg, MD, with her husband Brad, and has young adult children. To learn more about Holly Mendelson and INSIGHT Into Diversity visit www.insightintodiversity.com or (43) Holly (Benton) Mendelson | LinkedIn.
Ayelet Masica
AYELET MASICA has a passion for designing spaces that are both beautiful and functional. Having worked on restaurant designs for the majority of her career she has developed a skillset and passion for creating inviting spaces that work. She works with the mindset that the ultimate design should be one that you love and enjoys working with clients to bring their design goals to life. She has worked in Washington DC for the award-winning design firm, HapstakDemetriou+ with a focus on fine dining restaurants, fast casual and concept prototype design. Ayelet holds an MFA in Interior Design from George Washington University.
Aaron Kaufman
Aaron Kaufman joined The Jewish Federations of North America’s Washington DC office in January 2016. He is the Senior Manager of Legislative Affairs. He focuses on disability and poverty issues.  Aaron came from the Arc Maryland where he lobbied members of the Maryland General Assembly and the Maryland Congressional delegation on issues affecting Marylanders with intellectual and developmental disabilities and their families. He worked in the offices of then Congressman (now Senator) Chris Van Hollen and former Senator Evan Bayh as well as the Easter Seals Office of Public Affairs. In addition to working at JFNA, Aaron is a member of the Maryland House of Delegates where he serves on the Judiciary Committee. Having Cerebral Palsy, Aaron feels he brings a unique perspective to his work in the House of Delegates and JFNA’s efforts on behalf of people with disabilities. Outside of advocacy, he was the instructor in Project SEARCH Montgomery, a job-training program for young adults with significant disabilities. Aaron graduated from the University of Maryland, College Park with a BA in American Studies and with several honors. He is on the Executive Committee of the Jewish Foundation for Group Homes and is the former Vice Chair of the Maryland Developmental Disabilities Council.  He also served on the Board of the National Association of Developmental Disabilities Council as well as the Board of Disability Rights Maryland. He is on the Board of the Jewish Federation of Greater Washington and former Board Member of the Union for Reform Judaism. Outside of work, Aaron enjoys following DC sports teams.  He is passionate about politics, enjoys movies, live theater, museum and travel as well as non-fiction books.
Avi Friedman
Avi Friedman is the Founder and Principal of Jumpstart Philanthropy, a consulting firm focused on empowering local, regional and national non-profit organizations and their leaders to achieve their philanthropic goals and enhance their organizational capacity. Avi currently serves on the board of Montgomery County Little League (MCLL), and is on the executive committee of Shaare Torah, his family’s synagogue. Avi earned his BA from The University of Wisconsin-Madison and MBA/MA from Brandeis University. A native of Long Island, New York, Avi has called the Washington DC area his home since 2006 and currently lives in Gaithersburg, Maryland with his wife and their three children.
Elyse Lipan-Lash
Elyse Lipan-Lash retired after a 34-year career at Accenture.  Elyse was an HR executive focused on helping people achieve  their best, personally and professionally. She believes the best outcomes result from working collaboratively and supporting each person’s unique contributions. Elyse met her husband, Steve, when they were undergraduates at Northwestern University. She is the proud parent of two young adults. Elyse has been a member of the Bender JCC for 20+ years.  She joined for the inclusion program and stayed for the people. Elyse can often be found attending exercise classes or swimming at the JCC. 
Jake Bender
Jake is from Bethesda, MD and has been working in the commercial real estate field for 10+ years. He currently serves as a commercial office property manager for Blake Real Estate in Washington, DC.  He earned his bachelor’s degree from The University of Wisconsin in Madison and his masters in real estate from The American University. Jake has been serving as an Advisory Director on the Bender Foundation Board since 2018.
John Schmelzer
John Schmelzer grew up in Miami Beach, Florida, and went to college at Emory University in Atlanta. He married Naomi, his college girlfriend, and they have lived in the DC area for over 40 years, 35 of them in Potomac. Their older son Jeffrey lives in Austin, Texas, and works for a company that provides virtual mental health services. Their younger son, Michael, lives in Bethesda with his wife, Amanda, and their two sons. Michael works for Abramson Construction Company. John has been retired for six years, but had a rewarding professional life. He was a civil rights attorney/manager for the US Equal Employment Opportunity Commission for 42 years. He began as an appellate attorney in 1974, arguing cases before federal courts of appeal across the country. John sued employers for refusing to hire individuals because of their race, sex, or national origin. Later, John served in several management positions. During his career, John recovered millions of dollars for the victims of employment discrimination, won several precedent setting cases, including one before the US Supreme Court, and developed and built the largest nationwide mediation program in the country. John has always enjoyed serving the community. He became a volunteer listener for the Northern Virginia Hotline in Arlington when he first moved to the DC area. He served as a board member of his community pool and was a volunteer for his son’s cub scout pack. He has always had an interest in community mental health and therefore volunteered with the Jewish Social Service Agency, which provides counselling and other services to individuals and families. At JSSA, John has served in various capacities, including as a board member, on the Executive Board of Directors, and currently as co-chair of JSSA’s Ambassadors’ Council. At the Bender JCC, John has been a volunteer teacher for the last six years. One day a week, he teaches citizenship and civics to immigrants so they can pass their citizenship test and interview. Another day a week, he teaches conversational English to immigrants. He also volunteers at JCC special events, including the Health Fair, Celebration of Israel, the Hanukah concert, and movie nights. John looks forward to further assisting the Bender JCC.
Yair Inspektor
Yair Inspektor currently serves as the Executive Director of Construction and Real Estate and Senior Managing Counsel at Children’s National Hospital. In previous roles, Yair served as an Assistant Attorney General for the District of Columbia, Senior Advisor to the Deputy Mayor for Education, and as Interim Assistant Superintendent at the Office of State Superintendent of Education, Office of Health and Wellness. Before entering the fields of real estate, law and policy, Yair taught 11th grade global history in the South Bronx. Yair is a fluent Hebrew speaker (hailing from Israel by way of Pittsburgh) and has served on various boards including most recently the Sela Public Charter School. He is a proud husband and father of two, who both enjoyed experiences at the Bender JCC camp and can still perform spirited renditions of most of the choreographed dances and ‘Take me home, Montrose Road’. A member of the B’nai Israel Congregation, Yair calls the North Farm neighborhood home, just a short trip down that same Montrose Road.

Council of Advisors

Daniel H. Abramowitz
David S. Bender
Stuart Bindeman
Dean Eisen
Bernard Forseter
Greg Friedman
The Honorable Douglas F. Gansler
Beth Glassman
Toni Goodman
Eric Kassoff
Michael Kay
Mark Lerner
Michael Smith Liss
Jeffrey Linowes
Lawrence Mann
Alan Meltzer
Pamela Nadell, PhD
Robert Phillips
Julie Silver
Kathy Sklar
Marc Solomon
Robin Taub
Michael E. Winer
Susan Zuckerman

Past Presidents

Dale Singer z"l
Heidi Brodsky
Marcella E. Cohen
Scott Cohen
The Honorable Stuart E. Eizenstat
Barry P. Forman
Michael S. Gildenhorn
Felicia K. Gottdenker
Lesley Israel
Rosalyn Levy Jonas
Edward H. Kaplan
Robert P. Kogod
Samuel Lehrman
Harry M. Linowes
Steven D. Lustig
Philip N. Margolius
Sydney M. Polakoff
Arthur Polott
Richard B. Reff, M.D.
Beth C. Sloan
Andrew M. Stern
Bradley C. Stillman
John D. VerStandig
Bernard M. Weisz